Friday, 17 February 2012

Complex like a chocolate bar!

There comes a time in life when you realize your own mistakes and you cant help regretting your acts. Some actions are deliberately done but some happened, unintentionally, unplanned. And if such mistakes make you regret your actions, what's the better way of getting away with the feeling? Repeat the action again and give a chance to that mistake to become correct? Or accept what happened and realize that it was never meant for you and move on?

Some decisions, as much simple as they seem, are contrastingly quite twisted and tangled. They work as eye opener at times. But they make you more confuse too. 

And at that crucial stage, when you're surrounded by lots of important decisions to be taken care of, the more you try to focus on things and prioritize them, the more you loose concentration and your thoughts keep getting scattered which adds up to the problems. 

In such a situation, what's the best way out? Deal with the flood of problems? Or just stay calm and build an ignorance boundary around you and be indifferent?

Yes. Life is complicated at times! And what i decided to do was, sort out the problems one by one. I ignored the main problems of my life, the things which might turn my life upside down or atleast give a shaking jolt to my life, were ignored. May be it wasn't a wise decision, many people might think that. But it helped me in prioritizing. I knew i'd waste time in solving things which were just not in my hands so i focused on the immidiate issues, got them solved and smiled.. Yes, i smiled. Even during the most crucial times of my life, i always thank God for everything. I am thankful that wherever i stand now is far more better than the place i was standing earlier. Every passing day, i am more closer to achieving my goals, more close to something better. That makes me smile and motivates me. And all these things, some ignorance and some chocolates keeps me going! :)


  1. lol im confused should i comment on actions or decisions :P

    1. Comment twice. And do it on both. lol!

  2. for actions i would say we cant do much about that aspect because all of us are vain and wise at different times,at many time we do and many other times we dont do what we should have done

    for decisions: darling if your prioritizing is that way lol im amazed !because it certainly aint that!read the word again in dictionary

  3. I think in situation here, where all seem complicated, you are the best judge.

    The approach mentioned is definitely one, but you can't really prioritize. It's impossible to choose between choices, here you seem very only lucky who have managed to do so.

    My take on is always to find logic on the issue, and try to sort things, come to conclusion. And move on. It take months, few do it in weeks, some in years. But as soon as one figure out the right formula, he/she again starts living.

    Yes, lessons must be learned. And for all the has to be able to make the right choice and DO NOT RUSH. Happiness is in you, the sooner we find, the better. :-)

  4. Agree with you that sometimes the decisions we think are the best, backfires on us.

    For actions, I take his approach to think and make plans about everything. If it goes wrong, then what should be done and etc. As for chocolate, there is no substitute to it <3 Let the problems hit you, Chocolate is the best shield available :)

  5. Replies
    1. Yes, kind of. I actually updated it today. There are so many social media networks that i forget to post the stuff here too. :)

    2. Happy New Year..may this year see your blog flourish :)

    3. To you too. And thanks! :)